I came to you 8 months ago with my life packed into my Toyota Camry.
It was a long drive. 18 hours of leaving my past behind. My own tears surprised me as I drove away from my family standing on the porch of my parent’s house, waving as they watched me go. That’s become our tradition. And I’m always the one on the leaving end.
I was ready for you, for this new, temporary chapter of life. I was excited to leave the past.
But while it was a new town, I wasn’t a new me. I quickly realized that by changing states I was not changing stories. My past was mine to own. My story was mine to tell. My life was mine to live.
So I came to you, and I told you who I am and where I have been. I told it to church members in diners. I told it to distant family members in the mountains. I told it to dates in bars. I told it to neighbors in hot tubs and living rooms. I told my story to you, and you didn’t grimace. You didn’t run away. You listened and you welcomed me.
You let me play on your trails, exploring your mountain peaks and your forests and your waters. You let me make friends in fun restaurants and pubs and venues. You let me sit in peace, overlooking a lake with the mountains beyond, and the setting sun beyond that.
You have given me the space and time to become more myself. And while I’ve always known you would be a temporary dwelling place, you’ve been a good one. Most importantly, you’ve given me an atmosphere to learn how to be at home within myself.
Aside from your horrible drivers, you’ve been nothing but lovely to me. Thank you for being such a big playground for life. Thank you for housing me while I felt at home here. I’ll come back to visit.
(I’ll be on the go for the Story Project for all of May and then moving to Wichita, KS Beginning of June)
Favorite Denver/CO things:
- Mt. Bierstadt
- Mt. Quandary
- Colorado Trail
- Hanging Lake Trail
- All of the trails during fall
- Paddle boarding on our lake and slack lining in our “yard”
- The fries and cocktails at Williams & Graham
- The atmosphere at Linger
- The atmosphere at Crema cafe
- The chocolate at Dietrichs
- The eggs benedict and the beignets at Lucilles Creole cafe
- Blackeye coffee
- Pie and cocktails at the Green Russell
- Cheap movies at the Century Aurora 16 Theater
- Eggs benedict and sweet potato pancakes at Snooze Eatery
- Burgers & Brews deals during MNF at Stoney’s bar & grill
- Atmosphere & coffee at Roostercat
- The view from outside the dome on the Capitol building
- Being at Redrocks/ the view from Redrocks
- The river in golden
- Stranahan’s whiskey (both the product and the free tour & tasting)
- The Denver German Christmas Market on 16th St. mall
- Even though it’s not just a Denver thing, I discovered & fell in love with it here: Waffle House
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Jo O’Hanlon is an adventurer and storyteller. She tries to be honest about the ugly and hard parts of life, and the beautiful parts too. This blog is one of the places she shares her thoughts and stories.
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